Black or White
Black and white thinking. It is one of the most hurtful things in the world. On the outside, it feels clear and clean. Good vs. Evil. Right vs. Wrong. Winning vs. Losing. Hero vs. Villain. Alley vs Enemy. Friend vs. Foe. In truth, it simply causes divisions. It forces lines to be drawn. To pick a side. Once you've made a choice, stick to it. And defend it, if you must. ***** Last Christmas, I found myself at a church picnic social. It was at a beautiful park by the river. The food was good. The weather was beautiful. It should be just free and easy. I happened to fall into conversation with an older lady who attended church connect group with hubs. We connected over initial small talk on her family, work, travels. As our cordial banter warmed up, she candidly asked why did she not see me at church with hubs. I decided to reciprocate her candid spirit. I'm not a Christian. She seemed floored for a minute. The curious questions started. How did my husband and I meet? At church. W...
